Emotions are made of… #moodmapping #bipolarrecovery
May 11, 2012 1 Comment
Emotions are made of…
As a stress adviser I found this diagram to be useful showing emotions to have three components:
The arrows are there to show how:
- The way we feel can affect our energy and our thinking.
- Our energy can affect the way we feel and the way we think.
- Thoughts can affect our energy levels and our feelings.
I was told I had a mental illness. ‘Mental’ being to do with thinking, it made sense to me that if I could improve my thinking that would sort out my problems. In fact, improving the way I was thinking did help me to recover. I wrote about this my first book, Stop Paddling/Start Sailing. Readers have told me how much it has helped them.
The reality is, thinking alone does not provide lasting recovery or build resilience. If your feelings and energy levels are kind of out of control then simply reading Stop Paddling/Start Sailing is unlikely to do much towards a full and long lasting recovery.
Eventually, I was amazed and delighted to discovered I was not mentally ill. I was not even ill. I had a mood problem and for this I needed to understand that FEELINGS and ENERGY are the components mood. Knowing more about how to feel differently and have more control of energy levels turns out to be an excellent place to start recovering from being labelled with bipolar disorder.
Next time… Looking at Feelings and Energy to provide a balanced approach to having moods that are good for you and those you live with.